The only way to "win" with a narcissist is not to play. I'm sorry, but all of these tips seem like ways to keep playing THEIR game...because by trying to make them miserable, you are still giving them the time of day.

It's not about making them miserable or "making" them change. You just have to leave and cut contact. The end. That's how you "win."

Still, I appreciate your sharing of perspective!