One thing that I’ve also noticed in these red pill-esque circles is men who just completely make things up. They make these statements about women and bring in really arbitrary “supporting data” from studies that (like the wolf example) have nothing whatsoever to do with human adaptations or behavior.
And I have a sneaking suspicion that many of their anecdotes of “I know so many professional women who are always complaining they can’t find a man…” are completely fabricated. Never, in all my career as a professional, have I heard my fellow women complaining that they can’t “find a man.” It’s easy to find dates and such - it’s specific examples of bad behavior we complain about. Guys getting handsy, not respecting our “no,” demanding things, etc…that’s what you’ll hear women complain about in regard to dating. IF you actually speak to women and are close enough for them to talk about their dating life at all.
Red pill types act like women are out here struggling to find men, but the vast majority of us aren’t averse to being single and focusing on other relationships. Women have an easier time “leaving the market” than men, and plenty of us do so without making a fuss (as you’ve pointed out in various comments and this article).
At the end of the day, it would be better for these men to admit that they can’t handle rejection without feeling rage or taking an enormous hit to their sense of self, rather than get caught up in this red pill fantasy world. If they could admit these pains, and form communities that allow them to exist with that pain and not blame people for it, we could make progress and help them feel better. As it is, women are repulsed by these entitled attitudes and want nothing to do with it.