It seems to me that men confuse FEELING attraction/lust with behaving lustfully - and because many of them (naturally) feel attraction to women's bodies (to an extend I don't think many women can truly appreciate), they decide it's reasonable to restrict, blame, and chastise us into standards that make THEM more comfortable. Then there's also the awareness men have of the fact that OTHER men are going to find "their" women attractive, and this opens up a whole insecure can of worms for them. Guys need to deal with their complexes and leave us out of them. Attraction is natural, but being an a**hole doesn't need to be.