I sense a man who barely did any of the work of "having" kids and probably delegated most of the truly backbreaking labor to his wife...aka "mommy."

Plus, dude...are you stupid, or do you CHOOSE to ignore the fact that people have different wants and needs, and it's rude to judge them for that? You put your opinion out here because you wanted to openly judge others for decisions you can't even adequately comprehend. Truthfully, I don't know that I'd put "writer" in your bio, since the title seems quite dubious based on what I've seen while perusing your uh, work. Try engaging with other perspectives and writing beyond "I did this and like it and also care a TON about what other people do and/or think about me."

THEN you'll write at something closer to an amateur level!