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I Need External Validation And You Do Too: Why Artists Need To Stop Feeling Bad For Craving Praise
It’s not always a bad thing to seek attention — sometimes it’s simply a part of the creative (and human) process.
If you’re an artist or an alleged human being, you’ve probably heard advice along the lines of “you shouldn’t care what other people think” or “successful people learn to validate themselves without paying attention to outside opinions.”
Well, I’m here to tell you that this is bullsh**.
I’ll get into the details of why it’s bullsh** shortly, but first of all, I’d like to observe that I have never heard of or met a single person in all of human history who has truly not cared what other people think of them.
Have you? Sure, some people seem less inclined to act on the opinions of others, and some people are great at giving off that devil-may-care attitude, but ultimately, they do still care about the things others see in them.
It’s natural. It’s human. And it’s high time we stopped feeling bad about ant of it — seriously.
